by Lori Wildenberg | Feb 24, 2020 | Anger
We are passionate about kids. Many of us, most of us, are surprised at the big love we have and also kind of shocked at the big mad that can rise up in us toward that same child as well. We want to stay in control but sometimes struggle with how to do that. Here are...
by Lori Wildenberg | Nov 11, 2019 | Uncategorized
“You need to settle down.” Oh boy…those words never bring the response the speaker is looking for. Settling down will not be the next thing that occurs. “Just settle down,” those are fighting words. I overheard a man (perhaps a husband)...
by Lori Wildenberg | Jan 28, 2019 | Anger, Character Development, Preschooler, Toddler
“When my littles fight, I stay out of it. I let them work out themselves.” This approach and reaction to arguing sibs is pretty common. The idea behind it is to not take sides and hope they can resolve things without the parents getting involved. This...
by Lori Wildenberg | Jun 11, 2018 | Anger, Preschooler, Toddler
Throwing a tantrum, pitching a fit, having a meltdown. Screaming, kicking, and generally full body gyrations are involved in the throwing, pitching, and having an emotional (and physical) outburst. A friend of mine mentioned on Facebook her son was having one...
by Lori Wildenberg | Jun 5, 2017 | Anger, Character Development, Communication
The earth shakes, the volcano explodes.No…it’s not a natural disaster–it is the catastrophic emotion of a child who is unable to self regulate.The good news is self-control is a skill to be developed.When big emotions are stirred the natural...
